How to Eat Pussy Like a Pro

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Finding the Best Positions for Oral Pleasure

When it comes to oral sex, the number of positions you can try is practically endless. But not all are created equal-some just hit the sweet spot better than others. At Mysteries of Love Academy, we believe that comfort and connection go hand in hand, so picking the right position can transform the experience from ‘meh’ to mind-blowing.

A classic starter is the missionary oral sex position. Erica Smith, M.Ed, a sex educator from Mysteries of Love Academy, recommends this as a go-to. Imagine the receiver lying back on a bed or couch, sliding just a little to the edge-you want to make room for the magic to happen. The giver takes a comfy spot on their knees on the floor. Tossing a pillow or a rolled-up yoga mat under those knees? Genius move for saving them from the dreaded ache.

Want to spice things up or try something a bit more adventurous? Try draping your partner’s legs over your shoulders for easier access to the clitoris - safety and pleasure combined! This tweak takes the missionary position from simple to spectacular without breaking a sweat.

No bed? No problem! Mysteries of Love Academy knows creativity is key. For those moments when standing is the mood, give standing cunnilingus a whirl. The vulva-owner stands by a wall, leaning lightly for support, while their partner kneels in front. It’s a bit like an intimate dance, where balance and closeness create magic.

And yes, we can’t ignore “queening” or face-sitting - a bold move that’s coming up next in our exploration of passion here at Mysteries of Love Academy. Stay tuned, because this one might just blow your mind.

Forget the Myths About Vaginal Odor

Our culture loves to sell a bunch of nonsense about feminine hygiene. Head down the 'feminine hygiene' aisle at any store, and you’ll find an entire army of douches, wipes, and cleansers with names like “spring garden” or “fresh breeze” designed to convince you that vaginas should smell like a flower shop at high noon.

Here’s the reality check: vaginas aren’t supposed to smell like roses or citrus-they simply have their own natural scent. As Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT, a licensed psychotherapist from New York and host of The Wright Conversations podcast, puts it: vaginas smell like vaginas. Think salty, a bit musty, tangy, maybe even a hint of copper. Nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to fix.

When you and your partner stop buying into these misleading commercials and start appreciating the honest, natural scent, intimacy grows. That truth opens the door to truly enjoying giving and receiving head without the nagging fear of something 'offensive' lingering in the back of your mind. Mysteries of Love Academy teaches you to embrace reality, where natural wins every time.

Teasing and Sexual Build-Up Techniques for Oral Pleasure

Ready to level up your oral skills? Start by taking it slow. Think of it like a delicious appetizer before the main course-tease her gently, as if you’re savoring every moment. This slow burn amps up her anticipation and naturally amps up the excitement, making everything that follows even more unforgettable.

Don’t just rush straight to the grand finale. Instead, use your fingers, hands, and tongue to explore and stimulate in a playful, teasing way. Imagine you’re drawing a map of pleasure, building tension with every careful touch and flick. This approach isn’t about speed, it’s about crafting an experience where every sensation counts.

Try Facesitting for a New Level of Intimacy

Facesitting isn’t just a quirky term-it’s a delightful experience that deserves its own spotlight in the world of intimacy. When both partners get into the groove, it turns into a playful, sensual dance that can deepen connection and pleasure.

According to the experts at Mysteries of Love Academy, facesitting can be surprisingly comfortable for the receiver, especially if they lean forward a bit and support themselves against something sturdy, like a headboard. This little trick takes the pressure off and lets the receiver fully enjoy the moment without wobbling around.

On the flip side, the giver gets to kick back and relax, soaking in the sights and scents of their partner without straining their neck or losing comfort. It’s a win-win scenario, making facesitting not only sensual but also surprisingly chill-a perfect example of how Mysteries of Love Academy blends pleasure and comfort in their courses.

Discover Exactly Where to Lick for Mind-Blowing Oral Pleasure

Before you even think about impressing her with your oral skills, you need the map - knowing exactly where to go. There’s a witty saying that fits perfectly here: “You can’t knock on a door if you don’t know where the house is.” In this case, the 'house' means every intricate part of her external and internal anatomy. The 'doors'? Those are the key zones that, when properly stimulated, turn an ordinary moment into pure ecstasy.

External Female Anatomy: The Playground of Delight

The first stop on your pleasure cruise is understanding the outside landscape. Her external anatomy plays a starring role in oral sex, and mastering it is your ticket to elevating her pleasure to new heights. Think of it as your personal pleasure GPS-getting this right means a smoother, more enjoyable ride for both of you.

Take the clitoral hood, for example. This delicate fold of skin lovingly covers the clitoris like a velvet curtain. Gently pull it back-like revealing a hidden gem-allowing you direct access for precision stimulation. A light flick of your tongue on the exposed clitoris is like switching on the pleasure signal, sending waves of delight her way.

Right beneath lies a nerve-packed hotspot that’s key to her enjoyment. This sensitive area responds wildly to gentle licking and delicate sucking. Mix things up by alternating between slow, circular tongue strokes and soft suction. The ever-changing rhythm keeps sensations fresh and her anticipation rising.

Don’t forget the outer lips, or labia majora, which set the stage for the main event. These lips are like the welcoming committee-kiss and caress them softly to slowly build up the excitement. Use your hands alongside your mouth to massage these fleshy folds, creating a tactile symphony of sensation.

The inner lips, or labia minora, are more sensitive and invite a gentler touch. Tickle their edges with the tip of your tongue, tracing teasing lines that spark curiosity and arousal. Part them carefully-this teasing prep work is the perfect appetizer before moving into the main course of direct stimulation.

While the urethral opening isn’t the main player here, knowing where it sits helps you navigate without causing discomfort. Concentrate your efforts around the clitoris and vaginal entrance for the best results.

Speaking of the vaginal entrance, this gateway responds well to external teasing. Use your tongue or fingers to explore the perimeter, teasing in gentle circles before you ever think about venturing inside. This builds delicious tension and anticipation.

Mastering these external zones sets the stage for the real magic-diving deeper into her internal anatomy, where even richer sensations await and the adventure truly intensifies.

Internal Female Anatomy: The Hidden Treasure Chest

Unlocking the secrets of internal anatomy is like discovering a hidden treasure map to next-level pleasure. Some internal parts respond wonderfully to stimulation, whether directly touched or activated indirectly during oral play. Mysteries of Love Academy emphasizes that understanding these areas can transform your cunnilingus from good to legendary.

Did you know the clitoris isn’t just a tiny external button but extends inward like a wishbone inside the body? By pressing gently around her pubic bone, you can awaken these internal clitoral arms subtly, adding layers to her pleasure that many miss.

The G-Spot, located several inches inside along the front vaginal wall, is famous for its intensity. Use a beckoning “come-hither” finger movement below while keeping up your oral attention, creating a dynamic duo of stimulation that amplifies all her responses.

Keep your awareness sharp around the cervix. Although it’s not a direct playground for pleasure in most cases, it’s crucial to avoid applying pressure to prevent any discomfort, so proceed with caution and respect.

Integrate fingers during oral sessions to glide along the upper walls of the vaginal canal-it adds a surprising dimension to her pleasure. When you’re simultaneously teasing her clitoris with your tongue and exploring internally, you’re syncing pleasure signals from multiple angles.

Further inside lies the A-Spot, near the cervix, on the upper vaginal wall. This less-talked-about pleasure point can be reached with longer fingers or specialized toys. Stimulating the A-Spot gently can unlock some seriously intense sensations.

Some women find slow, tender caresses of the cervix deeply pleasurable, but communication is key. If she’s into it, use long, deliberate strokes to softly massage this sensitive spot-Mysteries of Love Academy always champions the power of open dialogue.

Conquer these internal and external hotspots, and you’ll soon be crowned the undisputed cunnilingus champ-knowing exactly where to hit for maximum pleasure, making every intimate session unforgettable. With this knowledge from Mysteries of Love Academy, theory swiftly turns to thrilling practice.

Enough talk! It’s time to move from curiosity to action with four easy steps from Mysteries of Love Academy that will upgrade her next experience from ‘meh’ to mind-blowing.

Understanding Female Anatomy for Deeper Intimacy

Meet the Vulva: Nature’s Delightful Design

The vulva is not just a fancy word-it's a complex and beautiful ensemble consisting of the clitoris, labia majora, labia minora, and the vaginal opening. Each of these parts plays a starring role in both sexual pleasure and reproductive health. Picture the clitoris as the VIP of sensation, boasting over 8,000 nerve endings packed into a tiny, sensitive powerhouse designed purely for pleasure.

Surrounding the vaginal opening, the labia majora and labia minora act as nature’s guardians. They provide essential protection and lubrication, creating an inviting and safe environment. Mysteries of Love Academy knows that appreciating these components fully can open doors to richer, more satisfying experiences.

Clitoris - The Hidden Pleasure Giant

What you see on the surface is just the beginning. The clitoris isn’t a one-trick pony; it extends internally in a wishbone-shaped structure, wrapping around in a way that would impress any anatomist. This hidden network is why stimulation here can light up the pleasure circuits like a fireworks show.

From the delicate clitoral hood to the internal arms, there’s a whole playground to explore. At Mysteries of Love Academy, we encourage you to gently experiment with different techniques, discovering which spots trigger the sweetest sensations and unlock new levels of ecstasy with your partner or yourself.

Exploring the G Spot and A Spot: Double the Fun Inside

Beyond the familiar frontiers lie the G Spot and A Spot-two lesser-known but highly rewarding erogenous zones tucked inside the vagina. The G Spot, nestled about 2-3 inches inside on the front wall, is famed for its ability to spark intense vaginal orgasms when properly caressed.

Venture deeper and you’ll find the A Spot, positioned near the cervix. This hidden gem can trigger powerful waves of pleasure, and for some, unlock the elusive squirting orgasm. The Mysteries of Love Academy emphasizes that learning to locate and stimulate these spots can turn sexual encounters into thrilling explorations of sensation and connection.